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4 Tips for the Perfect Self-Evaluation (Even if You're Not a Professional Writer)

Performance Reviews. Talent Evaluations. Employee Appraisals.

Whatever you call them, they’re an unavoidable part of almost every company’s year-end process. They’re basically the process of asking people to take the time to reflect on all of the things they’ve been able to accomplish (or not) throughout the year.

 

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One of the most challenging parts of the process for people, even beyond having to listen to your manager rehash the play-by-play of the confrontation you had with Bill from Accounting earlier in the year, is the self-evaluation.

Having to not only remember all of the things you’ve done throughout the year, but also put them into a coherent summary to then be judged by your boss, isn’t anyone’s idea of a good time.

Even the most high-performing person can still feel some reservation when it comes to completing their self-evaluation.

I totally get that.

While you might be tempted to jot down a few high-level bullet points (for the moments you can actually remember) or just copy & paste what you wrote in your evaluation last year, you should know that this is an opportunity for you to really highlight your accomplishments and verbalize to your boss the value you bring to the team.

Here are 4 ways to turn your next self-evaluation into a work of art that truly reflects what you’ve done throughout the year – instead of an uninspired piece of junk you don’t even want to write (and your manager won’t want to read). 

Highlight Your Strengths

For some reason, even self-assured and confident people become overly critical and self-deprecating when it’s time to write their self-evaluation. It’s like all of your insecurities (and we all have them), come to mind when you sit down to explain how you’ve spent the past year at work.

The goal of your evaluation should be to focus on your strengths and what you bring to the table – not to magnify the areas where you’re struggling. It’s not that you should be deceptive, but you shouldn’t spend too much time focusing on what went wrong.

Instead, talk about what you’ve done well, the lessons you’ve learned and what you’re doing to develop the areas that need work. Your goal is to show your progression over the past year.

Keep Track of Everything You’ve Done Throughout the Year

Starting right now, keep track of every project you’ve completed, working group you’ve participated in, training you’ve attended, etc., so you have content to pull from when it’s time to consolidate your annual achievements. There’s nothing worse than sitting down to write your evaluation and coming down with a serious case of writer’s block.

As humans, we’re prone to discarding information we don’t use on a daily basis – even if it was a positive experience. That’s why you forget about that big project you led in January that received a lot of praise by your team, by the time November rolls around.

Tracking your achievements doesn’t have to be some big, elaborate process either. A simple Excel sheet that lists the date, title/subject, who you worked on the project with, key outcomes and any miscellaneous notes, will be a huge help when it’s time for you to recall all of the information you need for an amazing evaluation. 

Create a Highlight Reel

Instead of re-hashing every single thing you’ve worked on throughout the year in a boring, bulleted list, focus on creating a dynamic story based on your 3-5 major highlights. Now that you’ve been keeping a list of all your accomplishments in your tracker, it shouldn’t be difficult to scan it and come up with those things you really want your boss to remember.

Your goal should be to pick achievements that show different parts of your skill set. For example, you could choose one thing that shows your leadership ability, another that shows your technical expertise and another that shows how much of a great team player you are.

Even if you’ve managed to complete 13 projects throughout the year, thoroughly explaining the top 3-5 will force you to focus on quality and not quantity. No one – not even your manager – wants to read a 3-page report on why you’re the best person on the team. It’s in your best interest to be brief, yet compelling – especially if you want your boss to actually read the entire document.

Provide Supporting Information

For every key accomplishment you mention in your self-evaluation, follow up with the words “For example”. This will ensure you’re not just throwing vague and non-descriptive sentences together, but that you’re actually backing up what you’ve just said.

Using exact numbers and specific examples whenever you can, provides additional context for your manager – which is helpful in solidifying your claims of how awesome you are.

As you can see, writing an effective self-evaluation isn’t something only an experienced writer can do well. Following these tips – along with proof reading and spell checking what you’ve wrote – will ensure you’re able to create something that will make your manager take note of all you’ve been able to accomplish throughout the year.

If you’d like further assistance with creating a compelling self-evaluation, prepping for your review conversation and/or setting your career goals for 2017, schedule your Career Confidential call with me today! 

4 Realistic Ways to Steer Clear of Office Drama (Without Being a Goody Two-Shoes)

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Working with people you like and enjoy speaking with—especially about non-work related topics—makes the eight hours most of us spend at our jobs every day more enjoyable. There are so many aspects of work that can be a little bit (or very) irritating. Things like having a long commute, working irregular hours, or dealing with a difficult boss only scratch the surface of the many reasons people hate Mondays.

This is why it’s like a breath of fresh air when you wind up in a situation where your colleagues are easy-going, normal human beings—people you can not only collaborate with on a work project, but also debate your thoughts on Sunday night TV. People to grab a happy hour drink with or vent to about the latest annoying thing your boss said at Friday’s team meeting.

But, how do you know when you’ve crossed the almost microscopic line of sharing personal frustration and observations about work to the dark side of gossiping?

Read the rest of my article over at The Daily Muse!

Let me know what you think!

-Dorianne

The 1 Easy Way To Get Anything You Want (A Raise Or Promotion Or Lose 70 lbs)

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You've got #goals. That's awesome! So do I. In fact, almost everyone does (unless you're basic and are OK being mediocre). Maybe you want to run walk a 5k this year or take that trip to Thailand or get your man to finally put a ring on it. Whatever it is, kudos for actually striving to be in a different position than you are in today.
It's so easy to make goals, but a lot more challenging to accomplish them. And if we're talking about career goals, the achievement target gets even more hard to reach.
Why is that? Why do so many people flop when it comes to getting things done - especially when it comes to work?
Well, there's actually a simple answer. Habits. Our daily habits affect every single aspect of our lives. You can give me any single circumstance (good or bad) in your life today, and I'll trace it back to the daily habit you used to create it.
Don't believe me? Ok. Let's say you're out of shape. You are several pounds overweight and can't walk up 1 flight of stairs without losing your breath (this one is a personal one for me). You didn't get this way overnight. Perhaps you chose to sit on the couch and watch Game of Thrones instead of prepping healthy meals for the week (guilty). Or you chose to hit snooze when your alarm went off in the morning instead of going for a run (guilty).
Whatever your habit of choice was, you chose it instead of the other option that would have left you with a different result.
This same principle can be applied to ANYTHING. If you're an amazing cook or pianist or excel guru, it's because you habitually practiced, learned and experimented. Do you see my point?
So, how can we apply good habits to our career? Let's say that your goal is to get a promotion within the next 3 years. It's not enough to just say your goal out loud or even just to write it down. What specific habits will you create that will actually help you accomplish your goal?
The easiest place to start is to find someone who's already where you want to be. Then you can learn all you can about what she did to get there and then turn those actions into regular, consistent habits.
Let's go back to the promotion example, you may need to get in to work an hour earlier every day to learn the ins and outs of your job so you can become the subject matter expert on your team. If you want to build your network, then you need to create a process for you to email/ call/ connect with 1 new person per week. Or what if you want to find a new job? Are you willing to set aside specific, uninterrupted time in your schedule to research new roles, strategically network, or hire a career coach?
The bottom line is that there is hardly any goal that will remain unmet if you have the right habits in place. It's not enough to focus on the end result of what you want, you have to put together an action plan that outlines every baby step.
Daily habits are what  I've used in the past to get promoted, get a raise and get a new job. Developing good habits are also what worked for me when I lost 70lbs a few years ago, bad habits are the reason I gained them all back  and new habits are what I'll have to use now that I have to do it again.
There really isn't a magical or sexy secret to becoming successful at accomplishing the goals you set for yourself.  It's as easy as creating a new habit.
-Dorianne

Beyonce's Best Career Advice

Screenshot 2016-05-15 12.14.34We all know what an AMAZING, talented, beautiful and creative entertainer, powerhouse and overall #boss Beyonce is (and if you don't know, now you do).  But, beyond admiring her music and cheering her on for every accomplishment, you probably have never given much thought into how her career path can give some serious insight into your own! Over the past 20 years, Beyonce has managed to create her own signature style of music, eliminate any and all competition, keep her audience on their toes, set marketing and fashion trends and maintain a level of authenticity and class throughout everything she does.

While it may be tempting to think that there's nothing to learn from Beyonce if your goal isn't to be the baddest chick in the music game, I challenge you to read on.  Whether you're a die hard Bey-hive member or not (if you're not, I won't hold it against you), here are 4 things we can all learn from Queen Bey:

Focus on we. While it is very important to make sure you are excelling in your career and letting our boss know just how awesome you are every step of the way, it is equally important to build a team around you that supports your career and whose career you support as well.  The road to career success is paved with meaningful relationships.  The more you build others up, the more you grow.

Give it your all. No matter how many Beyonce concerts I've been to (4 and counting), I am always amazed at how big of a production each one of them is.  When you buy your ticket, you know that you're going to get a great show, but once you're on the inside and the show is in full swing, you see a woman who gives 110% for each and every song - all while wearing a fabulous ensemble complete with high heels and a waist length lace-front.  This should be the goal for your career! No, I'm not telling you to wear a sequined body suit to work tomorrow, but give it your all ALL DAY, EVERYDAY!  No half stepping when you get to work.

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Be consistent.  Concert after concert.  Tour after tour. Album after album.  We have all come to expect a certain level of content from Beyonce.  This should be the approach you take to your own career.  Everything that has your name on it or that you are part of should be taken extremely seriously no matter how small or large it is.  Your goal should be to produce a top notch deliverable every chance you get.

OBLITERATE the competition (and naysayers).  The biggest lesson I've learned from Beyonce is that THERE IS NO COMPETITION.  There have been many girl groups and solo acts that have come and gone over the years, but what continues to make Beyonce a standout is that she has recognized her unique place in the world, plays to her strengths and remains true to herself - no matter what any one else has to say about it. The moment you are clear on your career goals and what strengths you bring to the table, you will see how much you will stand out at work.  As you focus on what you have to offer in your own unique way, you will realize there is actually no competition.

-Dorianne

How To Recover From a Professional Setback

Screenshot 2016-01-22 21.58.30A few days ago, I asked my Instagram community if they've ever had a blow up or emotional meltdown at work and what they did to overcome it. Often times we work so hard to carefully develop our personal brand and then BAM, just like that one incident can threaten to undo all the progress we made up to that point. Although there was consensus that issues will and do arise over the course of one's career, there were differing opinions as to how to move past these issues. We know professional curve balls are inevitable, but they don't have to wreak havoc on your reputation and personal brand.

Related: The Truth About Personal Brand

 

Read on for 3 classy ways to recover from a professional setback with your career in tact.

Admit you made a mistake.  Whether you've just had a blow up with a colleague in front of everyone {including your boss}, burst into a puddle of tears at a meeting, or sent a confidential email to the wrong person, mistakes happen.  It's one of the the side effects of being human. Own up to your error and avoid being defensive.  Although there may be consequences for the mistake, the outcome is almost never career ending if you take responsibility for what you've done.

Be solutions oriented.  Another way to move past your mistake is to have a solution {or solutions} to the problem.  Just yelled at your cubicle-mate?  Draft your apology.  Gave your client the wrong metrics? Call them to explain the mistake and assure them you will send the correct figures over right away.  Nine times out of ten, as long as you've escalated to your boss and provided a list of possible solutions, you will have the support you need to move on.

Create a revised plan. Although mistakes are unavoidable, it doesn't mean they are easily forgettable.  You will have to adjust your moves in order to remind people of your brand and work ethic.  As part of your process of resolving the issue, come up with a strategy that shows you are deliberately working on making sure the mistake does not happen again.  Sign up for conflict resolution training.  Delete the auto-fill feature when inputting email recipients' names.  Create a double check process before submitting any final numbers.  Once your boss sees that you've not only fixed the original mistake, but are doing your part to ensure it doesn't happen again, it won't be long before all is forgotten.

At the end of the day, it's not making a mistake that is detrimental to our career, instead it's how we recover from that mistake.  Use these tips the next time you find yourself in the midst of a career crisis.

Dorianne